Bukannya SOKMO makan nasi

Hari ketiga puasa baru saya makan nasi cuma sahur saja masih setia dengan nestum. Macam baby memang saya baby. Banyak kali dah saya cuba makan benda-benda lain masa sahur seperti nasi atau mee tapi tetap tak boleh. Rasa berat saja jadi baik makan benda yang boleh telanlah. Yang paling senang sekali nestum sebab saya tak payah susah-susah bangun dari katil dan tak payah nak kunyah-kunyah. Bila makan nasi masa buka puasa pula mula-mula memang teruja tapi bila habis makan Tuhan saja yang tahu betapa terdesaknya perut ini nak telan betul-betul. KENYANG sangat-sangat sebab tu tahun ni target nak kurangkan pengambilan nasi dan bulan puasa inilah peluang yang terbaik untuk kurangkan nasi. Dua tahun lagi bolehlah jadi pramugari Insya-Allah.

Saya baru saja lepas makan nasi kerabu ayam percik tanpa BUDU. Kenal tak budu ? Kebanggaan ore Kelate. Sekarang saya lagi kenyang. Rasa menyesallah pula makan nasi tapi daripada rasa menyesal baik rasa bersyukur. Ala lagipun bukannya SOKMO makan nasi.

When men get spooked out of wanting a commitment

First he meets a woman he likes a lot. Her independent and slightly elusive aura gives him an important first impression :

"She doesn't need me. She likes me for who I am. Let me get to know her better."

So far so good. If she starts probing about his intentions or the future he will say:

Let's get to know each other slowly and see where it leads. Let's take it one day at a time."

Women will sometimes misinterpret this as rejection then she begins to press for more verbal reassurance.

"Where is this going?."

"What do you see in our future?."

"Where do we stand?."

Now let''s hit the PAUSE button. Here's why you won't get the response you're looking for. If he's operating on his own time clock, commitment or exclusivity will be something he'll bring up after three to six months. Most women don't wait that long. They bring it up after two to four weeks. A man must feel desired for who he is before committing and in his mind you can't possibly know him well enough after a couple of weeks to make that decision. It has nothing to do with seeing other women or commitment phobia. He wants to feel it's his unique set of qualities you fell for and that his magnificence and brilliance won you over. And that you wouldn't be with just any guy who would take you in. This is the number-one reason why men back off. This is why you need to seem as if you haven't made up your mind. He wants your search to be complete and thorough beacuse you are discerning and will not settle for second best. If you are in a hurry he'll think:

"She's insecure and needs to fill a void. She cannot be alone."

I'm just filling a position. She needs me to write checks for her dreams."

"Her attention or desire to secure a relationship has nothing to do with me personally."

That's when the holding pattern and stall tactics begin:

"SPACE. I need space."

"I'm very busy with work. My circumstances need to change before I can commit."

"It's nothing you did it's all me. I fell of my bike in the third grade and my unresolved childhood issues prevent me from committing. My therapist tells me that too much intimacy would be harmful to my emotional healing."

"I'm just not ready right now but I may feel differently in six to nine months. In the meantime I could use a little convincing preferably while naked pants unzip. Right here oh yeah that's feels good. Don't stop."

Hmm

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